I wanted to write all this down, because I know eventually, with future babies, I will have to do this again. However, I am assuming it won't be as traumatic because I will then be a "veteran momma" who is way more laid back, right?
Anyway, Abby went to bed last night about 7:30. I went in to feed her about 10:00 before I went to bed.
We had one bit of crying that lasted ~30 minutes from 2:52 to about 3:28 (can you tell I was watching the clock? Abby was only up for that time, I was up for about 30 minutes after that....Oh the joys of getting all worked up in the night and not being able to fall asleep again).
She cried a bit at 7:00 and Steve and I both said, "Yep, right at 7:00, she is on schedule"). We laid in bed, fell back asleep, and woke up at 7:45! It is 8:11 and she is still sleeping.
Naps were off yesterday. She ended up getting three because her two regularly scheduled naps were short, so at 4:30 she had a little power nap to get her through the rest of the evening.
I am hoping to eliminate that night time cry soon, but having a baby who is in her bed (mainly sleeping) for 13+ hours is pretty incredible.
(When Abby wasn't sleeping I HATED hearing about how other people's babies were sleeping, HATED it, like "I want to push you down" hated it. It was hard for me to realize, but I needed to do this for Abby. Her crying was probably upsetting me more than it was her. Now, we are on the right track to getting her to soothe herself. I know there are going to be changes that happen that could throw this off, but I feel like I accomplished a huge task, and when she is crying at night (those 30 minutes take FOREVER) I have to remind myself that this is what Abby needs and it is good for her). I am not, by any means, saying this is the way you have to "train your child" it is what I had to do to keep my sanity. You do what is best for your kid.
I was about to email and ask how it was going. You read my mind.
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